Getting him back can have its ups and downs. You will have moments when you are so down that you can barely take it anymore. It feels like every day that nothing ever changes and it can be easy to give up hope. That is what makes it so exciting when you begin to see changes in your ex. This is why whenever you start to feel that twinkle of hope in your heart again, I encourage you to grab hold of it and run with it!
It might just be a feeling at first that things are changing and that you have a suspicion that he\’s thinking about you or becoming attracted to you. It might even be a look in his eye or a pleasant smile on his face when you see him. It could even be a kinder tone in his voice or some much appreciated attention from him that clues you in on the fact that you really do have a chance at getting him back. But how do you know for sure?
While friends and family might say that you\’re fabricating all of this or simply finding what you\’re looking for, you know your ex and you are sensitive to the subtleties of how your ex acts and behaves. It might not mean anything to anyone other than you but it\’s often the little things that will act as signals to you that he is thinking of you or that he is wondering what you\’re doing. Often, it won\’t be in one fell swoop that he will come back to you. He will test the waters and slowly move in your direction.
While it might be very tempting to go crazy and want to seal the deal as quickly as possible, this is a delicate time. If you revert back to your old ways and try to push him or convince him to get back together you\’re going to ruin everything. Instead, enjoy this feeling and these moments when you feel like he\’s coming back to you. Really feel that joy and remain cool, calm, happy and optimistic about your chances of getting him back.
Do not doubt that you\’re going to get him back. Even if things start to get a little weird, remain positive and optimistic and believe in yourself and your ability to win him over. You are in sight of the finish line and you will feel so wonderful that it will feel like when you first got together for both of you. Enjoy this time and be happy for a change. Your success in getting him back depends upon your ability to remain positive and not push him.
